Self Improvement

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    One of the most amazing things I learned in church on Sunday was self worth and self improvement. I know we have all struggled with something like that, and it's not easy. Too often we are bombarded with ads and messages from social media, television, etc. to be a certain way to be successful or change a certain thing about ourselves. You are beautiful just the way you are, and make changes in your life for you and not anyone else. Change because you want to; no one can force you to. My heart goes out to anyone who is feeling low self esteem; don't listen to any put downs people say, because they don't know what they're talking about. You deserve to feel loved.

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